Today is my birthday, a day that should be filled with joy, laughter, and warm wishes from friends and loved ones. But instead, I find myself sitting in solitude, grappling with the sting of rejection and the harsh reality of racism.
As a person of color, my skin color often sets me apart in a world that claims to value diversity but too often falls short of embracing it fully. Today, that truth hits harder than ever as I realize that no one has extended the simple kindness of a birthday greeting simply because of the color of my skin.
The pain of being overlooked and disregarded on a day that is meant to celebrate my existence cuts deep. It serves as a stark reminder of the systemic biases and prejudices that still plague our society, casting a shadow over moments that should be filled with happiness and love.
But even in the midst of this hurt, I refuse to let racism define me or dampen my spirit. I am proud of who I am, proud of my heritage, and proud of the resilience that has carried me through moments of adversity.
Though the silence of others speaks volumes, I find solace in the strength of my own voice, in the knowledge that my worth is not determined by the recognition of others. I am worthy of love, celebration, and happiness, regardless of the color of my skin.
Today, as I mark another year of life, I choose to celebrate myself. I choose to honor the journey that has brought me to this moment, the struggles that have shaped me, and the triumphs that have fortified my spirit.
And while the absence of birthday wishes from others may sting, I take comfort in the knowledge that I am surrounded by a community of allies and advocates who stand with me in solidarity, who see me, hear me, and value me for who I am.
So, to those who have stood by me, who have uplifted me with their kindness and support, I extend my deepest gratitude. Your presence in my life is a gift far greater than any birthday wish, and for that, I am truly thankful.
As I blow out the candles on my cake and make a wish for the year ahead, I do so with hope in my heart and a fierce determination to continue fighting for a world where no one is judged or treated differently because of the color of their skin.
Today may be a solitary birthday, but it is also a reminder of the resilience and strength that lies within me—a reminder that I am worthy, I am loved, and I am enough, just as I am.
